Jesus told us to love one another, as in 1 John 4:21, "He has given us this command: Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister."
Being an observer has given me the privilege of being a "fly on the wall," and my latest lesson is, "What kind of love is ours?" We say we love, but how deep is it? And is it enough? How do we go deeper?
I witnessed a paid caregiver assist a patient. They smiled and talked kindly. They appeared to be in no rush, exhibited great patience, and gave their patient the gift of "all the time in the world." If other duties were beckoning, there was no external signage. My heart observed that they were more than an accomplished employee but living their calling. I was touched by the blessing of watching a true calling at work.
I noticed that comparison of this "paid professional" and those who loved the patient in a myriad of ways generating more questions for pondering.
Is the love shared controlling as in is it out of directing influence over for personal reasons?
Is the love shared empathetic? As in showing an ability to understand and share the feelings of another.
Is the love shared gratuitous? As in it cost nothing. Roger L'Estrange said, "We mistake the gratuitous blessings of Heaven for the fruits of our own industry." Jesus' love cost Him His life. He did not stop short of going all in.
Is the love shared selfish? As in arising from concern with one's own welfare or advantage in disregard of others.
Is the love shared compassionate? As in pitying, sympathizing, sympathetic, or tender?
We are on our path to figuring this out. In the meantime, we are to put ourselves "out there" and allow Jesus to care for us in return. With that, I share the prayer; To Love One Another.
Dear God, Thank you for being a truly loving and merciful God. Thank you for offering me forgiveness and the gift of new life in you. Thank you that your love is perfect and never fails; as you promised, nothing can separate me from your love. I pray that I will be filled and overflowing with the power of your love so I can make a difference in this world and bring honor to you. I ask for your help reminding me that the most important things are not what I do outwardly, not based on any talent or gift, but the most significant thing I can do in this life is to love you and to choose to love others because "There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love." 1 John 4:18 in Jesus' name, Amen.
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